• The No. 1 rule for success is to have in advance with the trust and respect of our children .
• Avoid syndrome "father colleague" . You can speak naturally, good humor and spontaneity, but it is clear that some parents are not equal in the eyes of our children that their group of friends. We can not try to be at your height without us look strangely. If the bat into jargon we probably receive a cynical smile or outright rejection directly.
• Accept and overcome the awkwardness of the topic. Ourselves if we can bring it shame, imagine our children, to those who still see how kids. But we can not simply shame neglecting such an important issue in the passage from childhood to maturity. It's best to break the ice and take it with ease, and even humorous, even reminding us how we felt when we were their age.
• Do not bully . Getting face to face and talk about sex as if it were a serious issue, terrifying or shameful is the worst thing you can do. Best casually bring it up when the occasion arises, because of a movie or a television story, a story that comes up, you hear a song on the radio, and so on. That does not seem somewhat forced, if possible. And if you want to customize or accuse your son or daughter to not intimidate, you can speak in general terms, and so you avoid to be put on the defensive.
• Better talk to give a sermon . Make it a two-way conversation, not a monologue in which des tips or acknowledgments. It is also important that your children give their opinion and you listen to them, you know how they think or feel heard or understood.
• No manual responses . Naturalness and sincerity above all. It is better not to prepare this with phrases or prototypical situations. Nobody like you know how are your children and how you can deal with them. The manuals and guides for parents should be only approximate, never treated that must be followed to the letter.
• Stresses the importance of contraception and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases . Young people who start at a young age sex often do not have clear concepts that we have assumed as basic. If we take care to properly explain this, we can be much more relaxed, instead of letting them badly report based on rumors, hoaxes and half-truths.
